Thursday, March 09, 2006

Chasing Daylight

This book was recommended by Hung Siu Lam of HKEJ this morning. I am so interested to read this. The book is about the CEO of KPMG in the US, Eugene O'Kelly. He was told he had only a few months to live, because he was suffering from an advanced form of brain cancer in May 2005 (the last chapter was written by his wife after O'Kelly died). He wrote about how he managed his final months alive; saying final goodbyes to friends and family, rememebering "perfect moments" he had. Among other things, the book has a great message to all of us who lead our lives at a speed that we should slow it down, accept certain things the way they are, and value moments with family above time at work. I am thinking of buying this book.

Incidentally, I received a message today, which talks about basically the same thing. I'd like to share with you all:

THE BRICK

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed downwhen he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared.

Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown. The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up agains a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?" The young boy was apologetic.
"Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do," He pleaded. "I threw the brick because no one else would stop..." With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. "It's my brother, "he said. "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up."

Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me."

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay. "Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger. Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy! push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home.

It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: "Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!" God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not.

2 Comments:

Blogger 梁巔巔 said...

"He wrote about how he managed his final months alive; saying final goodbyes to friends and family, rememebering "perfect moments" he had"

"Among other things, the book has a great message to all of us who lead our lives at a speed that we should slow it down, accept certain things the way they are, and value moments with family above time at work. I am thinking of buying this book."

應該會好睇.

And "THE BRICK"

Thank you.

P.S. 睇?斷背山未? Don't be afraid. Just ask ask.

Thursday, March 09, 2006 9:25:00 PM  
Blogger Andy said...

斷背山 is such a boring movie. I don't think the two guys' love was anything special. On the contrary, I think they were just a mistake. Sex was what Jack was looking for in the relationship - he went to Mexico when he couldn't stay with his lover. If that's true love, I don't think the author or the director know what true love is. What they have was superficial love.

Thursday, March 09, 2006 10:38:00 PM  

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